When Two Firstborns Compete for Fifteen Years

“Your daughter can’t marry him. It will never work. They are both firstborns. Everyone knows firstborns are too competitive and don’t make good marriage partners.” Such was the sage advice given to my mother after we announced our engagement. Stereotype or not, both us are competitive. We each like to …

The Main Reason We Blend Instead of Delegate

  I’ve shared a lot about our personal philosophies in this series. I hope I’ve made clear that we don’t think we have all the answers and that we don’t think that your life has to be a mirror image of ours. I’ve just shared from my heart in the …

Fitting the Extras Into Your Homeschool

For most of us, the classes called “electives” were a large part of our education experience. Most of us sat through a few years of a foreign language and endured the rigors of jumping jacks and running in gym class. You may have played clarinet in band or made a crooked …

Homeschooling Through Tragedy

We were just a couple days into our first year of homeschooling. I was beginning schoolwork with my brand-new little kindergartner and her 2-year-old brother when I received the call. In the eerie calm of delivering bad news when still not quite grasping it oneself, my mother’s voice came over …

Why Socializing is Misunderstood

Another one of the big issues that comes up when people find out we homeschool is….. Big Question: If a child is homeschooled, how will he be properly socialized? The word socialization brings to my mind psychologists and professors with glasses far down on their nose studying what used to be called …

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